Promoting ambition can help children become successful adults. The American Academy of Pediatrics advises the following: love and accept your child unconditionally, and keep your expectations high; don’t expect perfection, but do look for empathy, integrity, and generosity; support your child’s passions; don’t compare your child to anyone else; praise your child’s efforts, rather than just the achievement; show a child that no one wins all the time, and that they should strive to do better next time; and encourage the child to take control of his or her life, instilling confidence to deal with problems and make decisions.
American Academy of Pediatrics, December 2016